Ed (aka Wilksie) Goes to NYC and Gets Covid But Gets Home Safe – GenXTalkin On Being Prepared

Storytime by GenXTalkin

A lot of people who basically live outside of huge cities such as New York City probably wonder how the COVID situation is going. Well, here’s my firsthand experience from travel to the area a week before Christmas, 2021 (we got home safe…).

My wife and her youngest daughter are NY Giants fans. I could write a book on this tragedy alone, but I digress.

For a Christmas present to both, we arranged a trip for the two to see them play against the Dallas Cowboys in Metlife Stadium 12/19/21. I paid for the flight and hotel. The hotel was on the Jersey City, NJ side of the Hudson with an unrivaled view looking east at the Lower Manhattan skyline. Nicia paid for the game tickets. I accompanied basically just to travel, because travel is partially life and freedom to me. I just keep forgetting what a hassle the NYC area is. 

Departure out of DFW and arrival in Newark International went fine. Arriving in Newark isn’t too bad. It’s departing out of it that can be like a whole other chapter of The Odyssey. I dare speculate that Odysseus himself, if he were confronted with departing out of Newark International Airport as part of his journey back home after 10 years of fighting in the Trojan War, would have looked to the heavens and wailed in grief to Zeus, “Why?!?”

On the Jersey side, almost no one walking on the streets outside are wearing masks. Inside businesses it was about 50/50. Most businesses had signs “recommending” the wearing of masks. 

Being Prepared for NYC and Manhattan

Here is where it gets fun – New York City! You can take a nice ferry or subway ride from Exchange Place, Jersey City, NJ and either way be at One World Trade area in Lower Manhattan in about 8 minutes. The ferry offers a nice view and a smooth ride for about $8/passenger. There were three ferries running – two supposedly owned by Goldman Sachs – and they are back and forth every 7 minutes. Masks are required on the ferry.

The subway is via PATH. Everything is literally right next to Hyatt Regency Jersey City on The Hudson. One way tickets on the subway are $2.75. Masks are required inside the subway areas and on all the trains. Unlike Texas where everyone would disregard that, everyone masks up inside subways and other places in Jersey City and NYC, and for good reason.

It’s strangely surreal, though. On the subways, I felt like I got the idea – the subways can be very crowded and it’s not like an airline that can have sanitizing ventilation sweeping through all the time, plus it’s in constant use – there is no respite on the subways.

But, once you get out on the streets on NYC, almost no one is wearing a mask, and in some places it’s even more crowded. 

For example, when you walk anywhere around the several blocks near Times Square and Rockefeller Plaza, it’s wall-to-wall, shoulder-to-shoulder, A-to-B crowds by probably the tens of thousands. Everyone wants to see the Christmas Tree, Times Square, and other sites. If you haven’t been there, it’s like a huge mall and cityscape museum of sorts, and it draws crowds more than The Vatican or Louvre! It’s the insane amount of crowds you’d expect from seeing any TV or movie depicting NYC street level crowds. And, no one was wearing masks.

Your sense of reasoning and rationalizing the situation becomes askew and disjointed and you start to ask yourself questions. Fortunately, navigating Manhattan is relatively easy, so you shouldn’t have to worry about getting lost. Almost all streets run north and south or east and west, and rivers on both sides are north to south, so you should have your cardinal directions OK and your dead reckoning of major sites down even without a cell phone.

If you’d like to walk the streets on the surface from One WTC to Central Park, it’s 4.2 miles mostly along 6th/7th Ave, it will take about 90 minutes, and you’re going to practically brush shoulders with people most of the way. If you want to take the subway, it’s $2.75 one way, you’ll have to learn how to navigate that system and avoid scammers and kids wanting you to donate to their “school sports team”, and you’re likely on the 123/ABC which can be quite crowded. Subway travel time from One WTC area to Central Park is still going to be about 25 minutes.

The crowds on the subway can be quite astonishing – like, standing room only; like, do I even want to try to get on this train? Once aboard, you’ll meet just about every Sesame Street character in real life, sober and otherwise. NYC has all kinds of mentally ill people just wandering around bothering folks all day, every day, everywhere. The more an outsider is in New York City, the more likely that person will probably just want to wear not only a mask, but a full bio-chemical protective suit all the time. 

The whole area, even those “posher” financial center areas nearby One WTC, is disgusting. There’s trash all over the place piling up on the streets until the disposal trucks get around to hauling it off. Everywhere you go outside, you’re met with the numerous urban cesspool-like odors. NYC’s finest are masked up and directing traffic at intersections everywhere. People are rushing. People are honking. It’s just a disturbing chaotic buzz. I’ve visited Manhattan five times now and I can’t understand what makes people stay there.

If you’d like to retreat to some safe haven or boon to the weary traveler, most bars and restaurants check your photo ID along with both vaccination cards. This is the same for most stores near Times Square, and I don’t know for certain from experience this time, but I’d imagine all Broadway shows are checking ID and vax cards. 

Ultimately, there’s the conundrum for me: Inside, you have to wear a mask or get ID’d and vax card checked. Outside it’s vastly more crowded and no one is wearing a mask. So, here we go, walking several miles in the Manhattan area. And, when I walk like this I like to keep a pace, a pace count for a rough understanding of my distance, and I like to walk-workout breath, taking in longer deeper breaths. 

We departed the ferry on the Manhattan side and my wife and her daughter ice skated while waiting for friends from upstate. Once the friends arrived and I met them all and we chatted a bit, we started walking from One WTC towards Central Park. Shortly after starting our walk I started getting into my hiking rhythm and my breathing was a bit deeper and slower and it hit me – there ain’t no way I’m not catching COVID like this, even if I’m wearing a mask. We tried to keep as much social distance as possible from the denizens of the deep, but to no avail.

Getting Home Safe

A few days later after getting hom safe to Dallas, I felt like I had sniffles and sneezes, and I tested positive for COVID.

For those who haven’t experienced the rapid testing yet (I had not until this moment), they stick a long q-tip looking swab about three or more full inches up your nostril and for me it’s very uncomfortable. They then use a solution and a testing card process, and lines appear (or do not appear) very much like a pregnancy test. It’s like you’re waiting to see if you killed the rabbit. 

For the “rapid” test, one can get results sometimes within about three minutes. My first test took less than two minutes for there to be two solid lines and my wife said, “Wow! You’re definitely positive and that’s the fastest I’ve seen it come back so clear!” I re-tested negative less than one week later and I never felt like I had more than a bit of a stuffy sinus issue, so we’re pretty skeptical about the accuracy of the rapid test. 

Through COVID so far, my wife and I have travelled to Las Vegas (twice for me); Tulsa, OK; Joplin, MO; Biloxi, MS and Orange Beach, FL; and Miami and Key West, FL, and we’ve never gotten sick. And, for the most part, most folks in all those areas have not been wearing masks from the beginning.

But, now, after one trip to NYC almost two years into a seemingly waning pandemic, I tested positive. THIS opened up a whole myriad of other concerns, the anxiety of which you can’t escape. Where did I get it – from whom? Who else may I have exposed? Now, I’ve got to quarantine from work for probably 2 weeks. Are my wife and her daughter OK? The daughter had already returned to her home and visited our grand-children! These thoughts all kept me awake at night.

Covid and Get Home Safe

My wife and her daughter tested negative, thank God! My sniffles grew to feeling a bit more like a full head cold the next day. But, ultimately, I was feeling better within about 72 hours of testing positive. As previously noted, we remain skeptical.

Ed (aka Wilksie) @genxtalkin

GenXTalkin Presents… Storytime: Florida Hurricane

For our imagination, training and planning today, let me introduce you to a married couple, Daniel and Elsie Gardner. Now Daniel and Elsie, for most of their lives, have lived in some western and some Mid-Atlantic states in the US. They have three great kids in their teenage years. After some long planning and hard work, it’s paid off, and they’ve bought their place at the end of a long road in Florida, just outside Orlando. Very private…. And quiet!

Daniel grew up most of his life in a preparedness minded home.  The pantry was well stocked, a small supply of water was properly stored, and there were secondary ways to get power and purify water if needed. His parents taught him from a young age that the way of the Scout was to “be prepared”!

Elsie was always a city girl and grew up knowing the power would always be there and thought there was a fine line between prepping and hoarding. To Elsie, Keeping a significant amount of food and water stored was pretty wasteful when you could just as easily go down to the market and pick up fresh food. And besides, it’s so much healthier as well. 

Preparedness had always been a minor point of contention in the household and the kids felt it whenever Dad would attempt to build any stock of food, water, or take part in any other of these types of activities. Mom would get frustrated. 

Daniel and Elsie have now lived in Florida for about 6 months.  Although they’ve heard of hurricanes in Florida, they’ve never experienced the real threat. In fact the only real experience they’ve had is when they lived in Maryland and one Superstorm skirted the area causing some wind damage, and minor flooding but nothing major.  Back in Maryland, anytime any type of storm (super or not) would come up, about two days before the storm, everyone would race to the store to stock up.  And often the shelves would be left empty until after the storm. 

Well, August rolls around and seemingly out of the blue, the news starts reporting about Hurricane Itan heading their way. As reported the storm is still about a week out, so Daniel and Elsie continue their work. Coworkers seem to be only slightly alarmed, but enough to make Daniel start thinking back to some of his upbringing. On a whim, he decides to stop and pick up 10 of the gallon sized bottles of Crystal Geyser water, and a couple of cases of smaller water bottles. Heck while he’s at it, he goes ahead and picks up some rice, and a few extra cans of soup, just in case. He just keeps them in his car for now. 

A couple more days go by and the reports are getting worse. The strength of the storm intensifies. By landfall, it’s expected to be at least category 3 and possibly even category 4.  Looking at the projected path of the storm only frustrates Daniel and Elsie as they try to decipher what it could mean for their small family. Some news broadcasts are indeed calling for evacuation of areas to the south and east of their home, but not necessarily their area. Confusion sets in, and after some time, the couple starts to argue about how they should prepare. 

Two days out from the storm, and Daniel thinks they should go buy a generator.  Elsie argues that it’s overkill. But as they see their neighbors start applying their hurricane shutters on their windows, Daniel starts to ask around for recommendations on how to prepare. 

  • They start to ask if the house they purchased has premade shutters for your windows?
  • you can often find them shoved into an attic or basement somewhere
  • Or you might still be able to pick up some plywood and clips at the hardware store before the storm
  • Might want to get those up well before the storm.
  • Do you have a generator?  That will be important. 
  • Extra gas and gas cans?
  • How much food and water do you have?
  • Last big storm took us out for about 5 days!

5 days!?  We better get moving!  With this info, Elsie was convinced. They needed to get out and pick up some of these things. 

The next day, Luckily they found the house did indeed have some fitted plywood sheets already cut to their window sizes… Thank God!  Next, Daniel decided to take a trip into town to look for a generator. As he passed through town he noticed that ALL buildings had metal shutters installed and locked into place. The town looked like the set of walking dead. 

Grocery stores, shuttered!  

Post office, shuttered! 

Two places remained open. 

The gas station, but the line to get there was over a block long. 

And the hardware store! 

He pulled into the parking lot and walked into the store. As with the grocery store several days prior, many of the shelves were bare. The only generator available still was a little 1200 watt unit that might power a couple of lights and a charger. Daniel bought it, and remembered he still had some oil he could use back at home. 

On his way home Daniel parked in the line to get gas. He waited for 2 hours listening to his podcasts. When he got to the point to fill up his car, it was running on fumes. 

He asked the attendant if they had any gas cans he could buy. “Nope, and we wouldn’t let you fill them up anyway.  Just your car!”  Daniel filled up the car’s tank and headed home. 

As he pulled up to the house, Elsie ran out to meet him, crying. 

“It’s picked up power off the coast. It’s a category 5 and headed our way!”

Now less than twenty four hours from the storm hitting the coast, Daniel and Elsie, and their young family have limited supplies, equipment they’ve never used, and the threat of an impending storm. They feel woefully unprepared, but reports indicate the evacuation routes are clogged with last minute travelers trying to get away. 

  • What challenging times have you had in discussing preparedness with spouse?
  • What are some things Daniel and Elsie could have done to better prepare ahead of time?
  • What were some good things they did leading up to the storm?
  • How early before a storm hits would be best to start preparing?
  • What are some activities they could do with the family to prepare themselves better?

Click Here to hear how Ed and Matt consider the questions themselves in our latest Podcast at Podcast.genxtalkin.com

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Lost Person Behavior – GenxTalkin on Being Prepared

Lost Person Behavior Cover

I wanted to share my review of a book with our audience this week. It’s called Lost Person Behavior by Robert J. Koester.

My wife and I have belonged to our area’s CERT (Community Emergency Response Team) group for years. Well, a few years ago, we had the opportunity to take part in a training course on Search and Rescue. This was an excellent class! It was put on by the great folks at TEEX (https://teex.org/), the Texas A&M Engineering Extension Service. They are a leader in the delivery of emergency response, homeland security and workforce training and exercises, technical assistance, and economic development.

WHAT WAS IN THE CLASS?

I tell you, they delivered. The small group was very prepared with plans, thoughts, ideas and materials on how to train our groups on the many different aspects of SAR. At one point, we were broken up into teams of 4-7 people. They would hand each table a map and markers and some other documentation. The idea was to listen to the initial report of a “Lost Person”, and using the information gleaned from this book, we were to estimate approximately where the person might be, or might be headed. We were to establish primary and secondary search areas. At certain intervals (only about 5-10 minutes, the instructors would walk around and make another announcement…

“24 hours have passed… new report tells of a red hat, much like the lost person was last seen wearing was found along a particular path.”

We would re-focus our efforts on additional areas with this new information. We had made it through about 2-3 scenarios already, and we were all considering it much like a game, even a competition. We started a new exercise. The lost subject was an elderly man, pretty healthy, who was up in the mountains searching for some ginsing plants. He was last seen, in good spirits, and headed out to his “regular spot”, at about 1pm on a Sunday after church.

Based upon his LKP (Last Known Point) and PLS (Point Last Seen), we had made it through the first couple of “days”, which were actually just five to ten minute periods, providing guidance to our imaginary search crews. Eventually, the instructor gives us one more clue, and it happened to be on day three. According to our guidebook, this estimates an approximate 40% survivability rate, if the subject is healthy!

Day 4 went by very quickly. Things got… more urgent, and although we had a tremendous effort by the team, our table had not found the subject. Another did. We asked how as he found.

“The subject, as mentioned, was an elderly man, and after three and a half days of searching, the gent was indeed found deceased in a cave, less than a mile from the red hat that was found on day two… He apparently had left it as a clue for people to track him as he had broken his foot and couldn’t walk. It appears he died in a cave of a heart attack…”

I was struck at this moment. These “excercises” are actual people that some of these instructors had actually searched for… and found, in this case… deceased. My demeanor immediately changed, and from that point on I wanted to continue to learn more and more about the subject of Search and Rescue.

This brings me to the book, Lost Person Behavior. It was the resource manual we used to estimate direction, distance, intention and even survivability of each of the lost subjects. If one were to actually read through the book, they would glean knowledge of how a lost person actually behaves, as the title would suggest. But more than this, the book defines what it really is to be “Lost”. Not to mention they would get tremendous history of the development of the ISRID (International Search and Rescue Incident Database). This is a compilation of thousands of incidents of lost persons around the globe. This database defines subject categories (identifying a person as a “Gatherer”, or “Angler”, “Child” or “Camper”, and identifies those with dementia or despondency. there are many different categories.

The ISRID primarily looks at lost person data in several ways, ,such as:

  • Population Density (urban versus non-urban incidents)
  • Group Behavior
  • Special Groups
  • Subject Scenarios
  • Search Scenarios
  • Search Times
  • Mobility and Responsiveness
  • Times and Distances

Additionally the book reviews subjects such as Lost person strategies, in which we get to dive deeper into what the person might be thinking. For example… is their traveling random, route-based, or direction-based. Do they appear to have been sampling routes or directions, perhaps to enhance their view of an area? Are they backtracking for any reason?

MYTHS AND LEGENDS

One additional interesting topic covered in the book is the Lost Person Myths and Legends. In this section, they discuss some of the more common mistakes people make and spread around, and they are absolutely false. For example, they cover:

  • Lost persons will turn in the direction of their dominant hand (left or right)
  • Initial search efforts should be directed at the statistical median because of a donut hole pattern of lost person behavior
  • Lost persons almost always travel downhill
  • Mental retardation subjects behave like lost children
  • Lost person behavior profiles tell you where the subject is located
  • Subjects do not travel at night
  • Subjects over 65 can all be treated as one category
  • Investigation always trumps statistical profiles

Each of these myths, can hold some value, but reviews within the Lost Person Behavior book prove that severe and often deadly mistakes can be made by SAR professionals using these myths.

THE END

The book ends with some intriguing and seemingly obvious statements. But I thoughts I’d provide some of them here.

“In order to find a lost person you must look in the right place. Lost person behavior is one of the most important tools in determining where to look… A thorough understanding of Lost person behavior elevated on to a true SAR professional. Search planning is more of an art than a science.”

I truly hope you will take the opportunity to engage with a local Search and Rescue team in your area. But before you do, take some time to read through the Lost Person Behavior Book. It’s a quick read, and I promise you won’t be disappointed.

Click Here to find it on Amazon

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GenXTalkin Whats In A Bag – GXT-EP03

GenXTalkin What's In A Bag

Hello there again and welcome back to GenXTalkin…

In one of our recent shows we reviewed the several different types of bags one could build or buy to start the process of becoming more prepared.  We thought we’d take some time in this episode to review some details of what goes into building a bag, and maybe even answer the question why.

Of course there could be a lot of bleed over between the several different types of kits, so lets consider some of the fundamentals.  Within every kit, no matter the name or purpose, we should consider the survival rule of threes, and we’ll bring these up fairly regularly throughout the existence of this podcast.

  • A person can survive 3 min without air
  • 3 hours in a harsh environment, extreme hot or cold
  • 3 days without water
  • And 3 weeks without food

The reason we start from this framework is to establish a baseline of need for every situation no matter what it is.  

AIR

So to keep it simple, we’ll start with air, and we’re not saying that within your everyday carry you should always have a world war 2 gas mask to protect against atomic or nuclear war.  Because the vast majority of events one should protect against could be simply handled with a cloth face covering, like a Mission buff.  But it is beneficial in many other cases, as we just experienced during covid, that N95 masks are the standard.  

You know it’s amazing how many people were stuck in a “left-behind” kind of mindset when they couldn’t get their hands on just ONE of these N95 masks.  It sure did cause stress for so many people.  

It wouldn’t hurt to pop on over to your local hardware store and pick up one of those little packs of 3, 5 or even 10 masks for less than 20 bucks.  During the covid supply shortage, these were selling OUT at 50 bucks EACH!  Later, you can start to worry about the full-on Gas Masks for Nuclear War, eh?

HARSH CONDITIONS – SHELTER

Next up…  Harsh conditions!  What we’re mainly referring to is exposure to the elements.  So this becomes more of an exercise of knowing your surroundings, and what is the likelihood you might be stuck in extreme conditions (again, this could be extreme cold, or extreme heat), without some form of protection.  Basically, this comes down to shelter or personal protection.  This could mean simply having an appropriate heavy coat, or an insulated bivvy sac in colder weather, if the possibility exists you could be stuck for extended periods of time.  

Or it could mean the ability to cover oneself to protect from the sun or other heat source in extreme heat.  In many cases sunscreen and a packable umbrella might suffice.  But it could mean stocking your kit with a tarp and poles to protect from heat in the hottest parts of the day.

When you start getting into preparedness, one of the best by-products is improving your ability to observe your surroundings and consider possible “worst-case” scenarios in your mind.  And then try to work out how you might respond.  

This is part of preparing a proper shelter or personal protection…  what are some of the possible scenarios I might find myself in between work and home,  or between the grocery store and home.  Are we in the colder or warmer months.  So you wind up changing the contents of your bags based upon potential scenarios.

We’ll ultimately wind up discussing this topic on a couple of other shows all by itself.  But playing these scenarios in your mind gives you insight into what could happen and how you might react if they do.  There is a reason flight attendants go through the emergency briefing at the beginning of each flight, right?  This is to put it into the mind of the passengers this worst-case scenario, so that not EVERYONE freaks out, “in that unlikely event…”, as they say…

Here’s an exercise, and it may seem morbid, but the next time you’re in a grocery, or a department store, be thoughtful through your entire shopping trip.  Consider the question…  How would I react if an Active Assailant came into the store and started shooting?  Do I have my kids and spouse with me?  Where’s the closest exit (it’s not just for the movies).  What would I do if someone was injured right in front of me?  Would I run to, or away from the shooting?

I assure you the more you do this, the more comfortable you will be in any situation similar to this.  

WATER

Let’s talk about water, probably the most important area to focus on.  But first, we’ll dispel a couple of myths right off the bat.  

Myth #1 – To store a bunch of water, I can just fill up a bunch of 2 liter bottles right? Although in an emergency situation in which you think the water system may fail, yes, an effective short term way to collect water is to find any and all containers you have (pots, pans, bathtubs) and fill them with good water.  But for long term storage it’s just a bit more complex.  Water can “go bad” if it sits for too long without some type of treatment.  So if you choose to store your own water, you’ll want to add a few drops of bleach into a 2 liter bottle which will keep the nasties from forming inside the bottle.

Myth #2 – Water lasts forever.  Not exactly.  If not stored properly, different particles can get into the bottles and make it taste bad, and possibly allow some nasty growths to form inside the bottle making the water non-potable.

Myth #3 – Water weighs 8 pounds per gallon…  Not a myth.  This is true, and the point here is water can weigh a TON, and can take up a lot of space!  Which leads to the main points of water in our preparedness bags.  

Water Filtration and Water Purification.  

These are two areas that are highly important when planning your bag.  

Put technically, Water filtration is the process of removing or reducing the concentration of particulate matter, including suspended particles, parasites, bacteria, algae, viruses, and fungi, as well as other undesirable chemical and biological contaminants from contaminated water to produce safe and clean water for a specific purpose, such as drinking, medical, and pharmaceutical applications.

So this process takes particles from water in an effort to make it drinkable.  Adding some form of filtration to a bag will always be a smart move.

But one often forgotten area of water preparedness is purification.  Like water filters, water purifiers work to remove impurities from water. However, water purifiers focus on killing biological contaminating agents in water with the help of either iodine or chlorine.  There are several different ways purification can be accomplished, but simply using iodine tablets will work for the purpose of our bug out bags.

FOOD

Here we are with our final breakout for the survival rule of threes, FOOD.  The simplest and most effective way to include food…  well, lets call it, nutrition… is including emergency rations.  I like to think of these little bars as wafers of waybread from the Hobbit Shire!  

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48% of Americans lack the emergency supplies for use in a disaster!!

Now think about this for just a minute all you GenXers. And I don’t mean the generation…

When was the last time you experienced a power outage, or prepared for a weather event, or had a state-wide lockdown? How long were you without power, or required to stay home? What… couple of hours maybe? No problem right?

What if it happened a bit longer? Say 24 hours? Would it still be ok?

Now consider if that power outage happened in your entire neighborhood and there are approx 150 houses affected. If 48 percent (around 70 homes) are not prepared with supplies, then those without will eventually start getting concerned, frustrated… or even desperate?

I’m just sayin… maybe we should think about that. Maybe we should be one of the prepared homes…

Seems like it would make things a bit more… comfortable, a bit more… peaceful, eh?